JP, you can buy Pacific Dogwoods online from many sources
They'll ship them dormant at the beginning of spring. 20 yrs ago, these were good to buy from:
https://www.burntridgenursery.com/Dogwood-Trees/products/71/ (We don't REALLY have a Pacific Dogwood climate, but if you find a happy spot to plant it and keep it watered, it will probably forgive our dry climate.)
Lilac bushes do very well here! Choke Cherries (native) do well with a little bit of shade. "Prunus virginiana demissa, Western Chokecherry forms a small tree or large shrub. Western Chokecherry does great at higher elevations in California, but grows in small numbers on north slopes everywhere from Coastal California to Lake Michigan."
Remember that whatever you plant, it will need regular water to get established. Drought tolerant or no extra water apply after its sent it's roots down.
Good places to look for natives are
https://www.calbg.org/ in Claremont (Used to be the Rancho Santa Ana Botanical Garden). Also, the Theodore Payne Foundation is a good place to buy.
https://theodorepayne.org/Where you live in town makes a difference. East side, below LPC, you can get plants rated to USDA zone 8. West side, colder, or upper Wrightwood, zone 7b.
On the west side anyway, every year there are nights in the teens. Every few years we get a couple nights that dip down to 0* Hardy to 0 or below is my buying threshold. Sometimes I fudge a little and settle for 10*--depends where I'm going to plant it. (Roses do well if you prepare the soil, and be prepared to water a lot for the first couple of years. Once established, roses are pretty drought tolerant.) Lavenders do well, butterfly bush, irises, yarrow, centranthus ruber (invasive weeds in some parts of the country--not here.) My natives got bugs and disease after our spectacular end of summer rain (Penstemons, mostly)--they need it to stay dry. Huchera does well, cone flowers, black-eyed Susans, sun flowers, etc.